Amazing New Research About the Clitoris
Posted by: marylinedecarie on: June 15, 2010
Science finally confirms what we sex educators have been saying for a while now: there is more to the clitoris than meets the eye!
The research study involved taking pelvic sonograms to map the inner structure of the female genitals including the clitoris. What they found is that there is indeed internal clitoral tissue analogous to the shaft of the penis.
read all about here: http://scienceblogs.com/neurotopia/2010/06/friday_weird_science_finally_a.php
Happy Sex with Maryline now on iPhone®
Posted by: marylinedecarie on: May 12, 2010
I know I haven’t blogged in a while but this baby is the reason why! Check out my new iPhone app!!!
Want more excitement in your life?
More pleasure, more sensations, more grrrr?
Better communication?
What about pure fun and laughter?
A sense of adventure?
Deeper emotional fulfillment?
Want that glowing grin on your face?
Want to share it with the one you love?
Do you want that intimate bonding experience?
That’s what I call HAPPY SEX!
….
Spread your toes, relax…
This is really a UNIQUE app.
Credentials : Happy Sex was created by:
Maryline, B.A. in psychology and Master
in Human Sexuality
CJ, Coach and Teacher
who trained more than 12 000 people over the
last 20 years.
Happy Sex with Maryline is a 30 day sexuality coaching app. It’s like having your very own sex coach in your pocket at all times. The 30 lessons come to you in audio format. Listen as Maryline, a certified sexologist, guides you through various topics related to sex, intimacy, communication, and embodiment.
Do one lesson a day (it takes about 5 to 10 minutes) and see real changes to your intimate life; we guarantee it. Filled with exercises and homework, there is no shortage of material in here to give your sex life a vibrant upgrade.
Ask questions and get answers. There is an integrated forum section where you can send in questions and Maryline will post her answer. This forum section will grow and grow with both user generated content and additional audio material. This is the app that keeps on giving and expanding.
This app was created from scratch specifically for iPhone users with the basic principle in mind that “everybody is entitled to a happy sex life”. It contains over 3 hours of original material not available anywhere else.
Similar programs on CD sell for more than 100$.
Healing through photography…
Posted by: marylinedecarie on: January 9, 2010
I wanted to share this site with you just because I think it is very important work. Listen to the comments of the lady in the video and her 30 minute healing process… She is absolutely right! A few hours of witnessing happy, positive, healthy images about our body as sexual beings can begin to heal years of negative images and silence about our genitalia…
Watch the video and visit the website for some samples of the images (NSFW) https://nickkarras.com/Home_Page.html
Keeping things in perspective…
Posted by: marylinedecarie on: June 15, 2009
We are drilled from childhood about what love should “feel” like, through
fairytale, and later movies and novels. When we describe the moment we
fall in love with someone we use expressions like having butterflies,
feeling our heart skip a beat, feeling like the whole world just vanishes
away…
I am not discounting these feelings, when we meet someone we both like and
are attracted to we do feel very real sensations in our bodies but I do
believe we need to keep things in perspective.
Those swooning feelings are not love and it would serve us well to
remember this when we are dating. I suggest repeating these simple
phrases when one feels themselves in the throws of new “love” (preferably
not out loud in the presence of the object of our desire ;)
Repeat after me:
- it’s not love it’s lust
- it’s not love it’s infatuation
- it’s not love it’s desire
etc…
You’ll soon find that when you can properly identify what is happening to
you and not just lump it all together and call it love then it’s much
easier to stay level headed and really have a clear picture of who we are
getting involved with…
Take care
~M
Why I hate Porn… wait! I don’t ;)
Posted by: marylinedecarie on: April 18, 2009
If I seem divided in the title of the article it’s because I am. Don’t get me wrong, I love the concept of porn, I think it’s a great tool to get juices flowing, to feed our erotic imagination and to fuel our fantasies.
My problem is with the kind of porn that is available out there. It’s all the same! All the porn stars look the same, have the same look, act the same and engage in the same activities over and over. Not only that but they are engaging in unsafe, unsanitary activities and deriving unrealistic pleasure from those activities. But who cares right? Isn’t the whole point of it that it’s a fantasy?
The thing is for most people, okay lets be honest here, for most men, porn is the only “sex education” they get. From late teens to first sexual experiences the only sex we ever really see in graphic details is from porn. And since sex in porn is far from realistic it set unrealistic expectations. There should be a disclaimer before each video “Warning: women don’t orgasm the minute you put your penis in their vagina”, “Warning: the mean size of the male penis is 4.23 to 7.53 inches”. All the porn watching imprints itself in our brains and leads to people to thinking that this is what sex SHOULD be like.
One last thing. We as a society, are becoming more and more aware of the impact our consumption has on people and the environment with things like fair trade coffees, and encouraging companies that pay fair wages to it’s employees. Why not be that conscious for porn? Why not encourage small companies who pay their porn stars fairly and don’t take advantage of it’s employees J
So in the end I don’t hate porn, I hate the type of porn that is easily available. Mainstream porn’s monolithic ideal of what is sexy, sexual, and satisfying is a disservice to it’s audience in the end. So don’t be a lemming, become more critical of the porn you consume, reprogram your brain to have more realistic expectations of sex and arousal and I can promise it will impact your sex life in a positive way.
Here are a few places to start with:
http://www.kink.com/ (outtakes at the end of the girls having the best time ever)
http://www.abbywinters.com/portal/
http://www.fatalemedia.com/ (distributor of quality DVD)
Enjoy!
~Maryline
